Thursday, March 5, 2009

An Ad and the communication

I don't watch TV much but yes these days ( actually from last few months) Balika Vadhu in Colors have been playing an indispensable part in my life at 8pm. I like the programme a lot. But will talk about it in some other post.

Today I just could not stop myself but saying ' disgusting' after seeing that ad. Its a leading mobile service provider who has cut down its SMS rate. It shows two friends / buddies sitting / standing / being just next to each other and yet they are talking over SMS. Hello!!!! Give me a break!! Is it what technology is trying to do in our lives? Does it make two friends sitting just next to each other and chit chatting over a small tech box! Sitting miles away using the small box called mobile, sending 'sweet nothing' SMS makes sense but when together can not we just use our mouth and verbal ability? Or tech makes us so incapable that we forget to talk! Then a day will come when we will use buttons / key pads to even shed a tear while departing with the most important relation of our lives or smiling on the happiest moment of our lives.

I loved so many ads from the same company - which are cute, creative, nice and make us feel good, But where the creativity of ad agencies are dying? Or is this the proper way to communicate? Ads which have huge impact on today's youth and kids, what kind of information are such ads conveying? Are not they just trying to even stretch the distance which is already there. We almost have forgotten to visit our relations on festivals, now all regards,hello,love,wishes are conveyed through SMS. its not so expensive. But what about the gap we are creating among ourselves? We are going away from our selves, our loved ones. How many of us talk over dinner? Most of us keep busy watching the favourite soaps at prime time during dinner - all popped out eyes and excitement and we forget may be there is someone at home, in friend circle who may be is waiting to say something or hear something. We talk so much on communication but how many of us are in touch with our old grand parents who are probably staying far away? or maternal aunts? or may be some sisters or brothers of a distant relation? or even a friend??

I am not completely blaming the tech age but to us as a whole and if agencies encourage youth to talk over SMS even when they are sitting together, I must say, we need to be worried about the next gen.

9 comments:

Unknown said...

very very true........

"prithibi ta naki chhoto hote hote, satellite ar cable-er hathe, drawing room-e rakha boka bakso te bondi???........vebe dekhecho ki, tara rao joto alokborso dure.....tumi ar ami jai crome sore sore".........

technology is not the culprit.....bug is in the business world, which is using technology to make peoples selfish, self-centered & basically alone.......they are indulging peoples to forget the traditional ever-lasting bonds & encouraging them to murmur the baseless fundas they are trying to sell, so that, they can use this gap as a market to fill....

we are becoming hopelessly idiot, day-by-day....have we totally sold our senses to them...????

Notes of Life said...

aamar toh ektai e comment "jokhon cell chilo na tokhon ki prem chilo na "..i guess aaro bayche prem chilo...we lost the charm of hand written lovely letters in the age of sms & email..

Notes of Life said...

todays world do the emotions really matters to us..?? jo dekhta hai wohi bikta hai..thatz advertising means to me...even the human relations and emotions are advertise to promote a silly brand..thatz the work of the stupid ad-makers & brand managers..!!

shilpi gupta said...

wont repeat myself by saying that content on your blog is moving towards a richness that i'm sure you yourself can feel. as far as technology goes, i think its okay till the time it brings us closer to our own people... but what its overdose has done is that it has completely taken hold of our lives.

I mean seriously speaking, but i cant believe that these days i actually hate being online after office... I mean it actually irritates me... what about the good old days when we had so much more to do rather than going online and checking our stupid scraps.

I think it has led to not only just physical but a lot of mental fatigue as well. and trust if we want, we can get out of it right away! :D

के सी said...

I am not completely blaming the tech age but to us as a whole and if agencies encourage youth to talk over SMS even when they are sitting together, I must say, we need to be worried about the next gen.
very true

साळसूद पाचोळा said...

Actually,...
Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power.... dats why we guided missiles & misguided men. ....

Ulki said...

hey baby...the point about technology and communication gap...i do agree to that but...aren't you overreacting over the ad? When i saw it i was shocked but then i found it funny...slice of life sort of...they are showing a cute romantic moment and ....i don't know u have done it before or not...but it's fun to sms someone who is sitting right in front of you...i have done that with friends...it's fun sometimes...obviously if u do it again and again the fun goes away...but i can't believe that u think it to be wrong...think about it again sweety...see the fun side ;)....and I agree with ur friend "itouch"...but i guess jokhon chithi chhilo na tokhon ki prem chhilo na ;P.....sheesh...guys...all of u seem to be ad haters...hope I am wrong...And i agree with Shilpi...and that's the reason Mou I felt so lazy to read your blog before...hope you understand....bye the way Kishore...stop worrying and let the world flow in it's own course...when lovers had started sending love letters written by paper on pen...did the previous generation make the same observation that these youngsters are ruining the classic essence of love by putting their feelings on paper..? i wonder...!!

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Unknown said...

Humour stems from the art of EXAGGERATION So i don't think the ad needs to be taken at face value.

Hand written e-mails will also be possible (using electronic 'pen' & 'paper') Till then the best option to make use of the best of both worlds is to fax a hand-written letter :)

I am all for technology - the more the better Waiting for the day when my refrigerator informs me (thru an sms) that my milk bottle/fruit/vegetable shelf has reached 'restock lvls' :D